Many people have a certain image or thought of others. Most good images created for loved ones or once loved ones, disappear due to broken expectations. People are people. They will live for themselves (most of the time). The best way to avoid disappointment is by not expecting much from these people. Sure, you can live a lie for a good amount of your life with the illusion of that-someone to be a certain way. Its actually false advertisement that you purchase yourself. Then once the bag is opened and you find what you were not expecting, actually the opposite of the ‘thought’ that you had created for this person, your whole world falls. Then, you must get up and face the fact that you have to stop expecting certain things from people. All in all, you learn from your mistakes. The best way to avoid such harm is to focus on yourself and not on the one sided thought that you have of others.

One line poems by eva626. Thats how we do it.


16 responses to “Expectations

  1. i think we should do what we expect from others to do to us, we should always be lovely, pure and innocent, yet we should expect nothing from other people but we should expect everything only and only from God

    • Well said! I agree with you. That is the only way people would not hurt each other, by acknowledging each other’s feelings; its also what Islam teaches. Thanks for commenting!

  2. I agree hun.

    I’ve had many bad experiences, yet I still tend to trust too much, too often…

    Love the one line poem – so very true!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Love and hugs always!


    • Thanks Prenin! Unfortunately some people dont like to understand my poetry! lol…but my 14 yr old brother seemed to get it, and he agreed with it too . hehe.

    • LOL..most of us never learn! but that life, experiences and we must learn from them, or suffer the consequences of being naive and dumb once again. lol

      survival of the fittest

      haha oh idk.

  3. Inspiring my friend. Yes, people are people and we should not expect to much. In fact, we expect less so that when they give something that we really wanted or hope for, we are truly excited and happy.

    • lol…i am not that young as people think…my blog theme is way youthful than I am….oh to be young again….i’d actually never want to do it again haha.

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